I know I know…gosh.
I been gone a while, alot of things have happened since then…but first let me explain my absence…
I switched offices, and i dont sit in the cut anymore. People be readin my emails over my shoulder (true shit…I already kirked on someone for it), so I dont like to blog here at work bc i dont need my coworkers readin bout my extra curricular activities. I dont blog at home bc…well, I sit at a computer all day! About the only reason I get on the computer at home is to charge or sync my iPod and read things that are inappropriate for work lol.
Me and Chinky Red chilled out. He showed me a side of him that i definitely do NOT like. He is jealous and insecure. We got into a big argument like 2 weeks ago about why i didnt call him one day and do yall know that this mofo had the nerve to say these exact words:
Well, you aint call me so that means your time must have been occupied. WHO IS HE?!
*Neffe voice* Are you serious?! Like, did you really just ask me that?
yea. he did.
So after i told him that he was PSYCHOTIC…we ended the conversation. He calls every once in a while…but no. i refuse.
OMG…the weather last weekend was abso-effin-lutely gawjus!! I drove down the highway wavin at all the motorcycle men (i love them!) i dont know if i told yall this before…but its nothin like summertime in the DMV! The men that be out *swoon!* i love it!
So yeah…bc of all that, member when i said that i wanted a boyfriend?? Well yeah, i think that i changed my mind…but this isnte permanent..just for about the next 4 months…its just too many men to choose from! and im boy crazy honey. mhmmm.
I started doing the radio show!! We (me and Dante Moore aka The Re-Educator) started last Tuesday. the show is every Tuesday night at 7 pm and you can listen on maximumrealityradio.com. Its so much fun…we have people who call in and everything. If you are interested in listenin to the first podcast then leave me a comment and I can email it to you. Also, you can leave topics in my comments…
DONT YOU HATE WHEN PEOPLE READ SHIT OVER YOUR SHOULDER???
^ thats for my nosey ass coworker…Craig.
lovehugzandkisses babies,
pink.
3 comments April 22, 2009
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Sugar Daddies, Party Buses and Sweet Dick Jones
So while I sit here and wait for the update on C. Breezy’s arraignment, i figured that I would go ahead and post a lil somethin for yall.
My weekend was swell! Friday i played hooky from work. I just chilled all day and night. I dont even remember what I did. Saturday I woke up and thought I was gonna chill all day until my homegirl, Bite-size (she’s 4′11 lol) calls me at 330 tombout, “Gurl! get dressed…you comin to Bmore wit me and we gettin on a party bus!” So im like, aight! I rush around the house to get dressed and pack my bag cuz I was stayin overnight.
-and I was really hopin that I didnt forget anything bc I am the worst packer yall. like, honestly. I think I’m gonna start a week early when i go to Miami bc I leave something I need everytime!-
I stopped to get gas and guess what I picked up?? A sugar daddy! lol…he was all like mmm…you look good girl. can i take you out to lunch or dinner sometime?? I just want to show you off! lol…At first I was thinkin ew! no! But then I was like…what could it hurt? I mean, he said that he wanted to get my hair and nails done and spoil me. Who am I to say no to that?? I mean, seriously! He was a handsome older man…prolly like late 40’s early 50’s…he looked like he was prolly fine back in the day too! so I gave him my number and we chatted while i was on the way to my girls house. He seemed cool and just to make sure that he knew that if we continued this lil “friendship”, he would be the provider of all things monetary without sexual gain…i told him i was a virgin! lol! He said that that was good and that he wasnt looking for a “bedmate” he just wanted some time and conversation from a pretty young lady like me. So obviously, even though he was old…he has 20/20…oww!
Once Bitesize and I got to Bmore we headed to the mall wit her roommate so we could get flyy. I wore a black button up and leggings and a coral corset (pix comin once i go home and steal them from fbook) and I KNOW i was lookin sexy!! We got on the party bus wit about 16 other people and the ignorance ensued! There was a pole toward the back of the bus and bitesize hopped her lil ass on it and everyone was partyin and drinkin and havin a good time. We got to LOVE
-if you know anything about the DC Metro area you know that drivin to bmore to catch a party bus back to DC is really super extra counterproductive-
and got our VIP/21 and up wristbands and went inside. Now, being that im 23 and havent had to attend college night in 2 years i had no idea that Saturday is the new 18 and up at LOVE. like, when the hell did that happen?? When i say that there were NO grown men in the club…i mean just that. So sadly, there was no one there to sponsor my Patrón habit [extra sadface]. There were some boys in our VIP section that had bottles of Möet…but i didnt want them to pour their back wash liquor into my Champagne flute! So i buzzed off the Sprite, Lemonade, Fruit Punch and Raspberry Rum that I was sippin on the way there.
On the way back, the bus was back in full effect and this lil boy that we affectionately named B5 (for his light skin curly hair look) was tryna bun me up. I was stretched out on the backseat and he comes and lays his head on my stomach (which hurts now from that dang corset) the whole way back to Bmore. He was a lil cutie and he obviously had a lil crush…but when we got back to the house that the bus picked us up from…why did i find out that his nickname was TDG or Thick D**k Godfrey…ummm not so cute. And what was even more uncute (yeah…uncute) was the fact that his best friends nick name was Sweet D**k Jones. AND THEY GAVE EACH OTHER THOSE NAMES!!!
gay.
Me and my gurls were DYING…do you hear me?? I mean, who does that?? He went on to explain that those were their Porn star names…
even worse.
I guess it was cool to them…they were 20. But im sayin…sweet d**k jones tho??
Boi STOP!
pink.
6 comments April 6, 2009
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Randomness and such…
Good morning!
- Me and Mr. Incredible have fallen off. Part of the reason is that picky eaters thing that i blogged about not too long ago…but most of it is bc i have realized that he is emotionally stunted. He is 25, but still wants to do the things that 21 year olds do. Which i guess wouldnt really bother me…IF he was also taking care of bizniz like a 25 year old. The latest on him: He got fired on his day off. *silence*yeah.
i cant. i shant. i wont. i refuse.
- Ive realized that I have matured ALOT in the last couple months to a year. there have been things that have recently gone on that I am proud to say that I handled like a lady. I used to like drama but thats just not me anymore. I have realized that it gets under peoples skin alot more when you ignore them than to engage in an argument. They can yell and scream and cuss (or type in caps and get all ”buck” over the internet which is heelarious to me) but when you ignore them or respond calmly, it bewilders them and thats why they “secretly” (i put quotations around that bc its not really a secret if i can see when you do it, now is it sweetie??) log in to their blogger account to take a look at your blog to see if you’ve said anything about them or the situation…
Hey boo! *smiling and waving!*
Oh dear…looks like ive gone off on a lil tangent, lol. Back to what I was saying. I dont let my blood pressure rise anymore over silly people. TM sent me a bible study last week i believe, hold on… *goes to look for the email* heres a lil excerpt (it was kinda long):
B. Joy makes us strong.
Joy — humor — laughter — all cultivate inner strength that operates beyond our own human abilities. His joy in us will produce His strength through us. The joy of the Lord in us will produce His strength through us! The words of Nehemiah say it beautifully, “The joy of the Lord is your strength.” Nehemiah 8:10 (NIV)
And that right thurr, is the truth…forrealz. Joy, humour and laughter is what i have decided to arm myself with. It will make me feel better and in turn, prolly piss the other person off! lol…its like a 2 for 1 deal! sike, but seriously, life is too short to be mad. period.
- I am going back to school.
- Why when it seems like I’m trying to do me and not worry about anyone else does it seem like the opportune time for a man to walk into my life?? lol, i mean like..is there an alarm that goes off to alert them or something? prolly so. I havent thought of a name for him yet…but anyway, ive known him for about 5 years. I went to a show wit my cousin and our friend. And my friend was talkin to a guy that happened to be in the band with this guy. After the show, we all went to her dudes house for a lil “afterparty” everyone was cool and i ended up meeting the guy (ok…ima call him ChinkyRed or CR) there and we talked until it was light outside..we exchanged numbers and me and my gurls left. weve kept in touch ever since and every once in a while, he asks me to come to one of his shows. (He is lead mic for a gogo band and a local rapper) but i never go bc i dont really wanna get to know the whole “performer” side of him, you know? I mean, the person that he is onstage and the guy i know are two TOTALLY different people. Anyway, he has recently expressed a serious interest in me (which i always knew was there…but just kind of ignored it bc i was always involved with someone) but i dont know if i can trust him bc of what he does. We’ve discussed my reservations about his situation and decided to take things extremely slow for right now. i need to figure out if i even want to get involved wit him like that. maybe we might just keep like it is…friends.
speak of the devil, this kneegrow just called!
lol, lemme go…
pink.
2 comments April 2, 2009
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Missing In Action
I been here…lurkin. I dont really have nothin to talk about right now. Or i cant focus on what i need to write. I have things to tell you guys but for some reason cannot formulate the words…smh. This is ridiculous. I was thinkin about blogging last night before i went to sleep and I said that I was going to but his morning i sat down at my desk and couldnt get it together. I promise.
smooches and shit!
pink.
2 comments April 1, 2009
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Deal Breaker
So me and Mr. Incredible have not been seeing eye to eye all weekend. This picky eating thing is really alot more serious to me than i thought. When i said that it turned me off…i really meant it. I dont think that I can be with someone who is not a well rounded individual. Granted, I grew up military…so I’m alot more open minded about alot of things. But come on! How can you be so culturally ignorant when you arent even 100% American??? His excuse is thats just the way he is…but i feel like thats something that needs to change. He’s 25. Theres no reason why he should still be turnin his nose up at the unfamiliar. I think what really got me when we were talkin about sushi was that he said, “I dont eat stuff like…that.” Like what?? what do you mean?? and then he goes, “well, i just dont eat raw meat.”…well not all sushi is raw. When i told him that, he didnt have anything to say. of course. And if you really think about it, since not all sushi is the same and you can pick what kind you want…theres nothin really in it that you havent had before. I like the Philadephia Roll at Benihana…so lets see…thats: salmon, cream cheese, cucumbers and avocado. Its wrapped in seaweed and then the sticky rice. About the only thing he’s never had is the seaweed but you dont even taste it! smh.
I know it might sound petty, but i dont think i can deal with it. Idk, am i trippin? I’m still irritated by it and its Tuesday! When he calls we really dont talk about much bc im thinkin about it in my head…lol. I feel like I might be tellin him I need a break soon…
pink.
3 comments March 24, 2009
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Picky Eaters
So…TM is always talkin about how she be cookin for the Count (her hubby) and Mr. Incredible always be askin me to cook, but he’s such a freakin picky eater! The other day, I went to Cafe Asia wit Jenbunnii and I thought that it would be a nice place for me and him to go and so when i saw him that night i told him about it and hes like, “Ew. I dont like sushi.” So im like, “have you ever tried it??” and you already know what his answer was.
My thing is how do you know what you like until you try it?? And I especially surprised with his pickiness being that he is Trinidadian. And he eats EVERYTHING that his mother cooks….curry goat, roti, calalloo and the list goes on. I guess my point is that im not to eager about cooking for someone that isnt open to trying new things. I dont always wanna be eating friend chicken, baked chicken and turkey burgers for my whole life!! I wanna expand my recipe catalog beyond american cuisine.
Back to the whole Cafe Asia thing…it really pissed me off! Not only had he never tried it, but he out right refused! What is it gonna hurt you to try something?? I make it my bizniz to try anything AT LEAST once. maybe twice. i had sake last weekend and you know what? i hated it. but i can legitimately say that i dont like it bc ive tried it. I dont like zucchini, but i know that bc ive tried it. I dont like Caviar…and i know that bc ive tried it! I dont get how you can swear that you hate somethin that youve never tasted. ugh. close mindedness turns me off. I mean, he says that he wants to travel the world but are you gonna eat a cheeseburger in china?? whats the point of going?? lol, as i type this I am getting angry.irritated.pissed off. This is less about me cooking than it is about him be closedminded. I am pissed now!! lol…im bout to call him and tell him waht i think!
excuse me.
pink.
3 comments March 20, 2009
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TMI Tuesday…Wednesday Edition
Ok…so ive sat at my computer thinkin about what i should or could tell you guys about…but NOTHIN. I cant think of anything!! I mean, there are things that i could share…but I wont right now. That would give it importance, and its not important to me. So, maybe i’ll tell yall later. It’s actually quite a funny story lol… Anyway, I stole this off someone elses blog. sue me.
WOULD YOU RATHER:
1. Would you rather be stranded on an island alone or with someone you dislike/don’t get along with? Oh lord…I’m a talker. So i’d rather be on an island with someone i hate. I’m pretty sure i could learn to like them.
2. Would you rather accidentally walk in on your parents having sex or have them walk in on you? Walk in on them. At least I wouldnt be the embarrassed one lol.
3. Would you rather be snapped by paparazzi during a nipple slip or while exiting a car with out any underwear?(guys, consider similar circumstances) I’d take a nip slip any day!! I like my boobs…they are nice! lol
4. Would you rather not have sex for two years or not be able to use the Internet for two years? Sex is definitely important to me but I can lie without it. I CANNOT live without the internet…gosh, i dont even remember how i did anything without it *thinkin hard*
5. Would you rather find true love or 1 million dollars? Definitely true love…i dont think i would be able to share a million dollars with someone i hate.
Bonus (as in optional): If you had to choose *one* sexual position for the rest of your life, what would it be? Why? I’m a rider!! lol…it puts me in control and i can make sure i get mine lol…plus it lets me determine how much or little work im gonna put in.
Ooh oooh!! I know what I had to tell you! The Radio blog is in full effect!! Me and my manz did a run through of he show last night and its official like a ref wit a whistle! The show will air every Tuesday night at 7 pm starting April 14, 2009. I even have a portable mic that I can use to randomly interview poeple off the street..yep, its like THAT! Callers will be able to call in and give their opinion on the topics and everything. I’m sooooo excited yall!! Sooo…I ask you guys, what do you want to discuss?? Leave suggestions in my comment box. I will post the name of the website when the date gets closer. Oh yeah, and the book is comin soon…I’ve already started my character research. 2009 is gonna be a biiiiiig year for me, i can already see it.
au revoir bee-chez!!
pink.
3 comments March 18, 2009
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Random Updates
Hello!
Ok..so, bc I am bored at work and I have left you guys hangin on some of my posts, I m going to do random updates so that why everyone is on the same page about my bizniz. Ready?
Operation: MANAR
Hmmmm…I’m not really sure if this is still in effect or not. I mean, ol’ boy is actin right. I havent really been as tough on him as I was. I guess we can say that its complete. But I will NOT hesitate to put it back in effect if need be! lol…we’ve had several serious conversations over the last couple days and we are on the same page about our kinda sorta relationship. He undersatnds what I what, and I understand that he is working on being able to provide those things. Right now, I am talking/effing him exclusively. I guess thats the benefit of being with someone that youve been friends with for awhile, its not hard to be completely honest. So we’ll see.
Strange dude at the light:
Hell no! I have not and WILL not call him. I understand that it would make for a good blog story, but i dont have the energy or interest to entertain you clowns! I still have his number in my phone…i might change my mind, lol. Say…whats the time limit on calling someone after they give you their number anyway?? Cuz i think i met him a month ago and i know it wont be this month when i feel like talkin to him. Maybe June? *shrugs shoulders*
My Bridezilla-ish Best Friend:
We discussed our issues the night before my bday dinner. We yelled at each other and said what we had to say…and then she drove 4 hours from NC to come eat Sushi wit me!! lol, gotta love those BFFs. It was baisically a miscommunication. She thought I was standoffish about the wedding and I thought she was on her own dick. It happens in friendships i guess. I’m glad we squashed it tho, cuz thats my boo. As a matter of fact, I am in the process of planning her bachelorette party (owww!) and her rehearsal dinner. Anybody know of some nice dinner restaurants in Bmore?? What about some nekkid skrippaz? holla at me.
Did I miss anything?? I dont think I did, but get at me in the comments and I’ll be sure to answer your questions.
-W3RD-
pink.
4 comments March 17, 2009
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3 shots of Patron, 2 shots of Sake, and a Mai Tai!
Good Monday morning!!
Is it just me…or can yall feel Spring coming?? I mean, its still chilly out but somethin about the air feels Springy…idk. Anyway, I have a weekend wrap-up: Birthday Edition for yall.
Friday: Was pretty relaxing i chilled with Candy (for anybody who reads her blog…shes doin allot better and she misses you guys!) for a while and then I went to kick it with Mr. Incredible for the night. We rolled up and just watched TV, i think. i really cant remember lol. Oh! He was trying to get me to watch Stepbrothers but I couldnt get into it. Of course we got busy *sigh* lol…but mostly we just bunned all night and into Saturday afternoon before he went to work.
Saturday: By the time that i finally took a shower and got dressed it was like 2. Me and my cousin still had to go to the mall to get outfits for later that night, so we just headed up to St. Charles and picked out some stuff from Charlotte Russe and Forever 21. We were runnin soooo late. Yall, our reservation at Benihana was for 7…but why were we still in the mall at 5?? We finally left and her dude (Quis) calls me to get everybodies name for the guestlist at Luxe and to let me know that him and Ricky would be at my house at 6. So im scramblin to get ready and of course they are late. At 615 i called to see where they were and they tombout they still on route 5…smh. So Jenbunnii changes the reservation from 7 to 8.
-sidenote- i think ima have to stop with the nicknames of people who are constantly around me…lol. im tired of tryna come up wit names and remember to use them when im writing about these people..
Quis and Ricky get to my house finally and Ricky bought me flowers *awwww*…you see, we all basically grew up together. I introduced my cousin to her bf by way of the ex bc they used to be best friends. So it used to be the four of us. Ricky and Quis were really cool in HS and now they have a townhouse together. So we have a loooong history, all of us. Anyway, everybody gets in Rickys truck and we head to Georgetown.
Once we get there, they tell us that we need to wai for everyone in the party to arrive. Well, there were 13 on the reservation…but only eight of us were there. Its me, Brandii, Ashlee (my bestie thats gettin married), Krystle (cousin), Quis, Ricky, Damaris (coworker) and her husband. Where’s Jenbunnii??? So i call her and she says that Renee (who was NOT invited) left her wallet at home and that they had to turn around to get it. Uh, she’s better than me bc Renee would have been drinkin water. But she says that they can be there by 9. well i decided that we werent waiting for them, but i made a reservation for them so that they could at least still be there.
Anyway, the 8 of us sit down and order our drinks and food. Whole time, Ricky is in my ear tryna flirt and charm my panties off…negative. We go back llike Pimps and Cadillacs..so I cant do that lol. Plus, Im about Mr. Incredible, but I flirted back and let him feed me filet mignon and ice cream lol. I had lobster tail, scallops, and shrimp. Damaris ordered everybody 2 shots of Sake. I have two words for that…HOT VINEGAR. Thats what sake tastes like. But at least i can say that ive tried it. the food was really good and I had somethin called a Philadelphia roll…it had smoked salmon, avocado, and cream cheese in it…the bomb dot com…for realz!! lol…I’m going to Cafe Asia tonight with Jenbunnii and I’ll be having some more of that!
We paid our bill and headed to Luxe Lounge. By this time it was back to the old HS crew (me, brandii, krys, quis and rick) and as soon as we got to the bar, krystle bout me a shot of Patron….then like 15 minutes later quis bought me one. THEN…ten minutes after that Ricky bought me my third shot of Patron!! It was ON!! lol…Patron gets me HYPE in the club…smh. So the flirting with ricky continued and were all dancing and havin a good time and then Ricky gon ask me if i was goin home wit him…uh no?!?!? lol…i guess he thought that that 3rd shot of Patron would do it lmao. By 130 i was busted and ready to go. So we head to the car where i proceed to drift off into a deep sleep. Ricky had to carry me in the house!! Pink was DONE.
I had a good time, and this weekend made me miss hangin out wit the old crew…but we’ll be doin it again this weekend bc Rickys bday is Friday.
Sunday was a chill day…me ad Mr. Incredible did our usual Saturday morning thing and went to Bob Evans…then he sat wit me in the nail shop while i got my toes done. He shoulda been gettin one cuz last time they had to pull out a drill on his. NO LIE. lmao…
i think i should start working now.
pink.
3 comments March 16, 2009
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Est. o3.1o.86!! and some other randomness
Yeah…so yesterday was my birthday!!! *Confetti falls from the sky* Yep…sure was…Ya gurl pink is 23 now!! They had a surprise party for me in my office and erything!! We had Pizza, punch, cake, ice cream and so mo ish! The got me a card too…yall, they loooove the kid in this joint lmao! My mommie came home from the Dominican Republic earlier than i thought so we went to the Olive Garden (we loooove their salad..yum!). Ion care what nobody say…OG bangs dawg…forealz. Everybody called and texted me…even The Ex…awwww, he misses me (his words, not mine) yall! Seems like things arent as peachy in the new relationship like he thought they would be…but…TOO BAD…SO SAD!! lol sike, but we cool. He been talkin to me about some of the issues him and his new boo got. Well, more like he got…you see, ol boy is still a cheater…smdh. Im surprised he admitted it to me, even though i been knew lol. He suggested that we go out sometime but i politely declined after he got a semi attitude because i got a date on Friday (more about that in a sec ). My thing is, dont think you in there like swimwear just cuz we had a few polite conversations playa…cuz you AINT! So obviously, he’s not ready to be chillin wit me if he gettin all in his feelins and what not. Plus im not the one to encourage no scandalous meetings behind his lil girlfriends back. Pink dont roll like that. So, no meet ups for now.
So my mom went to the DR and why she came back wit a blind date for me?! lol…she tryna hook it up for Friday night. She said that he a cutie. We’ll see. My mom got good taste tho so I’m not trippin.
Also, if you read my old blog then you may remember a guy named KT *sigh* what a dream boat! lol…He recently started workin back in my building and hit me on the email askin me out and stuff. I shoulda chilled wit him this weekend, but I didnt. I enjoyed the quietness that was my house. But I heart him!! lol…I’m so boy crazy, smh. We tryna make plans via email right now for this weekend. But im pretty booked, so we’ll see how that works out.
Oh….Mr. IDK…yeah, I saw him this weekend after I hadnt spoken to him all week. He calls me 4 times from a number that i dont know while I’m on a breakfast date with Mr. Incredible, so I finally answer and he says that the reason that I havent heard anything from him was bc….wait for it….
He was locked up. WOMP WOMP. He’s in BIG trouble yall…im talkin felonies…smh. Such a fine black man…gone to waste. His court date is April 15th. So we’ll see what happens…but I’m officially over it. My mom gon ask me if I’ma stack his commissary. HA!! moving on….
Speakin of jailbirds…Mr. 20 hit me out of the blue to tell me happy bday and he in trouble too! he went to court March 5th and he gotta go back sometime in April….these boys is crazy i tell you.
Im done tho…i feel like this post is gettin a lil lengthy lol
23 like ya boy MJ!!
pink.
3 comments March 11, 2009
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